Polish girls hear many ridiculous things about us on a daily basis. Due to the many articles published about Poland in media, the stereotypes, and prejudices, a lot of people created an untrue image about Polish as a nation, and especially about women from this country. Although Polish girls are friendly, open minded and don’t get offended easily. However, there are at least seven bad ways of trying to catch their attention, compliment them. We would like to kindly warn you how not to try to catch the attention of Polish women. Please never say the following phrases:
1. „You are nice as a Polish”
What does it mean ”as a Polish”? Sometimes guys think that if we are from the post-communistic country and we don’t have Euro as a currency, we are sweet puppies from a third world country. Many women from Poland fight with our image as traditional housewives who live in the patriarchal world.
2. ”You are pretty like a Russian doll”
Although we are Slavs, we are not Russians or Ukrainians. Polish girls have their own style and different look. Being a Slavic girl doesn’t mean that we are all similar. Polish women don’t look like Russians, Ukrainians, Croatians or Serbians. Being a Slav isn’t a type of beauty, the only thing that connects us is that we are all beautiful.
3. „Polish girls are the most beautiful!”
Oh, seriously? So all of your ex-girlfriends were really horrible, right? Have you dated Polish girls only? Well, this phrase is so pathetic and overused that no Polish girl will take you seriously after such a „compliment”. Moreover, have you ever heard that love has no nationality? If you want to be with a Polish girl love her for this who she is, not for her nationality or general popular opinions.
4. ”I wish I could have a polish wife, this country is cheap”
One of the rudest sentence you can say to the Polish girl. Sadly, many guys from western Europe think that. Yes, Poland is still out of the Euro currency zone, but why does it really matter if you want to date a Polish girl? Do you really think we are so cheap? Numerous Polish women experienced this problem when in 2012, during the Euro Cup in Poland and Ukraine, when many football fans from around the world arrived in Poland.
5. ”I’ve heard Polish girls are very traditional”
What do you mean by this? Do you think that we were made to serve a man? No, we were not. Although most of us are Catholics, it doesn’t make us potential slaves. Polish women love their families, but they are strong like the lions or the eagles. If you want to be with a Polish woman just because she is traditional, please find out what does it really mean. You will be surprised.
6. ”I’m looking for Polish girl because you are so religious!”
It doesn’t matter if we are religious or not. It is not your business. However, you have to know that there is a huge feministic movement and the moods among women are quite tense. As we fight for our rights, the last thing we want to hear is that you hope that we are limited by our faith. Even if we are, it shouldn’t be the reason for you to see us as more submissive.
7. ”I wish I could take you to my country, you don’t deserve to be here!”
If you want to date a Polish girl, you have to respect her roots. Even if she is not super-excited by everything in her country, she won’t forgive you if you will offend her homeland. Poland has a bad press abroad right now, but it doesn’t mean that all of the Polish people would love to live elsewhere or that we don’t appreciate what we have. Polish women keep their heads up and if you want to date them, you have to respect them.